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Ready to spice up your sex life? Whether you're single or in a relationship, we've got 200 sinful suggestions to help you get the ball rolling on your own Sex Bucket List! Updated with even more sexy ideas June 2023.

Want to bring a little entertainment and mystique into the bedroom? Tassel twirling is a fun burlesque technique to throw into your foreplay – plus, it’s possible for people of all shapes and sizes, and it’s easier than you might think!

Curious taking a golden shower, or engaging in watersports with your partner? A subset of Wet and Messy (WAM) fetishism, urolagnia or urophilia refers to arousal by the thought, sight, taste or feel of urine, and it’s not as uncommon as you might think.

For couples exploring bondage, rope is one of the most versatile and cost-effective means of restraint available – and it can also be one of the most beautiful. Shibari is a great example of rope play and restraint that can be intricate and erotic, and an increasing number of Kiwis are beginning to explore it.

Joining the mile high club is the ultimate sexual fantasy for some, and a worst nightmare for others. Still, it seems a lot of people want to join. If you’re one of the many who are keen to get down at altitude, we’ve pulled together some tips to help you make it happen.

A ‘life’ bucket list is a great idea… but what about making a bucket list for your sex life? Whether you're kinky, vanilla, or somewhere in between, it's time to identify new things you want to try in (or outside of) the bedroom – and then challenging yourself to make them happen!