The Ultimate Sex Bucket List
You already know why You Need a Sex Bucket List. The question is, what will you put on yours? We've updated our list with even more sexy suggestions -- so here are 200 sinful ideas to help you get the ball rolling…
- Buy yourself your first sex toy
- Wear edible underwear and invite your partner for a taste
- Try a remote-controlled sex toy
- Have a threesome
- Have a foursome
- Have a more-some, or group sex
- Explore electro-stimulation
- Try flavoured lubes to make oral sex even more fun
- Get a waterproof vibrator and take a bath together
- Have sex while using a fitness ball/yoga ball
- Give anal a try
- Role play as master/mistress and their slave
- If one of you has a vulva, spend a night learning all about the clitoris
- Get to know your erogenous zones – and theirs
- Go to a sex dungeon
- Make a sex playlist of songs that get you in the mood
- Watch porn together
- Have some sneaky sex in a store changing room
- Use a chastity device for at least a day before sex
- Master standing sex
- Try taking on a dominant role during sex
- Try taking on a submissive role during sex
- If one of you has a penis, spend a night learning all about the p-spot
- Role play as law enforcement and suspect
- Have a FAUX affair (with your partner) to spice things up
- Go to a sex party to watch or participate
- Use a ball gag
- Learn Shibari and tie each other in knots
- Have sex outdoors in the rain
- Browse an adult toy store online and pick out a new toy to use together
- Role play as a masseuse and client
- Take turns being blindfolded to heighten your other senses
- If you have a vagina, teach yourself how to pompoir (squeeze your pelvic floor muscles) during sex
- Try the Mac-Daddy of vibes – a wand – on yourself or your playmate
- Have sex in front of a mirror
- Try swinging
- Attend a VIRTUAL sex party
- Find the g-spot and give or have a squirting orgasm
- Try ice cube play
- Grab some nipple tassels and learn how to twirl
- Camp out and do it in a sleeping bag
- Role play as teacher and student
- Try the wheelbarrow position for deeper penetration
- Wear latex and enjoy the feeling of it against your skin
- If you’re a person with a vulva, get yourself an egg vibrator
- Try to ejaculate or squirt on your partner’s face
- Create a sex menu together, and choose what to enjoy together
- Brush up on your sexual lingo
- Pull your partner's hair or have them pull yours
- Handwrite a sexy letter and send it to them
- Enjoy a couple's sex toy specifically designed for use during sex
- Explore consensual voyeurism with a willing participant
- Wear vibrating panties and give your partner the remote control
- Find a secluded parking spot and making out (or bone) in the backseat like teenagers
- Have sex in EVERY room of your house
- Try anal play – or edging – without going the full shebang
- Have phone sex
- If one of you menstruates, have period sex
- Take an in-person or online sex workshop together
- Play with handcuffs
- Try prostate massage
- Make good use of that morning wood with morning sex
- Take turns wearing a leash and collar
- Listen to audio porn
- Give or receive a handjob on the crowded dancefloor or a nightclub
- Engage your sense with Le Wand
- Role play as cheerleader and jock
- If you’re a person with a vulva, experiment with vabbing
- Spend at least a month trying libido-boosting foods – and testing their results!
- Join the mile high club
- Use ear plugs or muffs to heighten your other sense during sex
- Role play as boss and employee
- Give or get a yoni massage
- Explore ASMR sex
- Watch your partner have sex with someone else
- Experiment with BDSM
- Get nostalgic for your teens with tons of dry humping
- Go skinny dipping
- Get or give a foot job
- Role play as hostage and abductor
- If one of you has a vagina, insert some kegal balls for added stimulation during sex
- Have sex on a trampoline
- Explore glass sex toys
- Role play as guard and inmate
- Try nipple clamps
- Explore safe and consensual choking, gagging, and breath play
- Sort out your sex toy storage
- Do a striptease, or watch your partner strip to the song of your choice
- Explore the world of ethical porn
- Play Truth or Dare with a sexy twist
- If you're a person with a penis, try a guybrator
- If you're a person with a vagina, try a thrusting dildo
- Invest in a sex wedge or a pillow designed to make some sexual positions easier
- Make each other come only using your hands
- If one of you has a vulva, try a clit sucking toy on yourself or your playmate
- Role play as (porn) director and actor
- Try anal beads
- Recreate your favourite movie sex scene
- Have sex on a sex swing
- If you have a thing for toes, explore shrimping
- Enjoy sex or solo play in the shower
- If one of you has a penis, get frisky with an endurance trainer during foreplay
- Wear a cock ring during sex or masturbation
- Play strip Never Have I Ever
- Explore double penetration play – with toys or penises or both!
- Last longer in bed with Solid Erex
- Write your own erotic fanfic starring you and your partner
- Role play as doctor and patient
- Try the yab-yum position for increased intimacy
- Have sex in a steam room
- Masturbate in front of each other
- Try temperature play
- Explore your artistic side with some painter and muse role play
- Try rimming
- If one of you has a penis, experiment with a penis pump during foreplay
- Take a fetish quiz together
- Have sex in a (private) pool or hot tub
- Give or receive a golden shower
- Play a sexy board game
- Treat yourself to sexy lingerie, or buy some for your partner
- Have a sexy scavenger hunt
- Swirl ice-cream on each other and lick it off
- Try fisting
- Have a private nude art class art home and have your lover draw or paint you in all your naked glory
- If you’re a person with a penis, try a prostate massager
- Have sex in public, but avoid getting caught!
- Play naked Twister
- Explore and act out your call girl or gigalo fantasy through role play
- Experiment with special wax-play specific candles
- Make a sex tape
- Learn how to muffle the sound of your sex toys
- Play dress up in sexy costumes
- Give or receive a pearl necklace
- Role play as handyperson and hapless housewife/ husband
- Come up with an unforgettable safeword you can use together
- Surprise your partner and dress up in a sexy body stocking
- Get yourself a flogger and use it on yourself or your playmate
- Take your foreplay to new heights with an app-controlled We-Vibe toy
- Have a superhero and villain fantasy? Role play it with your partner
- Explore libido supplements, endurance trainers or delays sprays to last longer in bed
- Fill an inflatable paddling pool with jelly for some slippery naked wrestling
- Hire a bouncy castle and have your wicked way inside
- Embrace your inner goth with black sex toys and accessories
- Role play as mad scientist and monster
- Have sex with all the lights on
- See what all the fuss is about and treat yourself to a Satisfier sex toy
- Do it with a sex doll and let your partner watch
- Get frisky with spanking
- Strengthen your erection with Kamagra Gel
- Explore orgasm denial
- Wear nylons or pantyhose during sex
- Update your sex toy arsenal with trending sex toys
- Send your partner or playmate some racy sexts
- Have a fireman fantasy? Ask your play mate to help your bring it to life
- Do it on a washing machine and let the spin cycle vibrations do some of the work
- Treat yourself to a luxury Fredericks of Hollywood toy
- Explore CBT (cock and ball torture)
- Try wearing a zentai (gimp or morph) suit during foreplay
- Play strip-poker – winner takes all
- Have sex via webcam
- Role play as an alien and their human subject
- Incorporate sex dice into your date night for some frisky fun
- Have sex in a limo
- Get your groove on with some stripper-meets-client role play
- Do it in the backyard, under the sun or stars
- Try sploshing, or getting it on while being covered in wet food or beverages
- Vacation at a sex hotel or resort
- Have sex by a roaring fire
- Explore your limits with a King Cock dildo
- Do a sexy photoshoot together and take turns being the photographer
- Make art on each other with body paint
- Explore your fantasies through role play
- Give – or get – a lap dance
- Master the art of dirty talk
- Get nostalgic and give your partner a love bite
- Try tantric sex
- Build a blanket fort and get it on inside
- Have a quickie in the bathroom of a restaurant/bar/pub
- Try edging
- Use arousal gel on your genitals or nipples
- Try queening/ face sitting
- Read erotica with a partner or, solo to get yourself in the mood
- Try wearing a gimp mask during sex
- Experiment with corsetry
- Dip your toe in the waters of discipline play
- Role play as a sex worker and client
- Use a fucking machine
- Wear heels or boots to bed and keep them on during sex
- Try pegging
- Spoil yourself -- or someone else -- with some luxe handmade lingerie
- Role play as a maid or butler and cater to your master's every whim
- Work your way through the kama sutra positions
- Have sex while fully clothed
- Get frisky with System JO flavoured lubes or stimulation gels
- Role play as a nurse and give your patient a sexy sponge bath.. or take their temperature
- Get the good vibes going with a bullet
- Role play as sex robot and scientist
- Go to a nude beach and have sex in the ocean
- Enjoy lazy, languid sex with the Pearly Gates position
- If one of you has a penis, undertake the ultimate crafting project together with a Clone-a-Willy
Remember, the whole point of a sex bucket list is to have FUN, so create a list that makes you feel stimulated, titillated and fizzing with excitement – and then have a blast ticking things off!
*Last updated June 2023
